Love at first site, Instead Chemistry, My Sole Mate, The Love of my Life, The Girl of my Dreams, these are all things we hear and if never found it, we really don’t feel they exist, until you do find it! I decided to get divorced because I knew I never found it. I was trying all the usual paths Dating Apps, Bars, Events, Single Events, Friends of Friends etc. Yes, if you’re reading this then you know they are all exhausting and don’t give you very much hope at all. Most of which don’t produce quality. I was looking for Quality, not Quantity. I decide to try Matchmaking. After researching, I came across Jill’s service. After speaking with Jill I knew she was the right choice. Jill is extremely knowledgeable and local. I think having someone local vs a cheaper national service would be the most successful approach. Jill has strong ties to the community, tremendous contacts in the industry and a huge database of singles from her single events and referrals. Jill was very honest and told me you need to be open and trust the process. We all have “The List” to measure your partner against. Jill helps you with the list because sometimes that list maybe the reason you’re single. There is a difference between Wants and Needs. Jill helps you identify what is the difference and makes sure you set yourself up for success. It’s not like buying a car you can’t just pick your “List” of options and order it from the factory. Jill encouraged me to just say “Yes”, not to just anyone but to be open to saying yes more often than not because you really don’t know where the connection will come from. So, I started saying “Yes”. Saying “Yes” helps get you through the first time jitters, gives you experience and helps you really understand more clearly what you need. Most importantly sets you up for being ready so when that right person comes along you don’t do something to push them away. Each time you say “Yes” it not only gives you more information it also gave Jill more information about me. So after every “Yes” the search became clearer and clearer for Jill. As time passed, I started getting frustrated. Jill kept telling me to trust the process, frustration is normal. You haven’t found her in 57 years, don’t think it will just take months for me to find her. More frustration set in and Jill again told me to trust the process and then she said “I feel we are so close. I can just feel it”. Well, the very next date I went on, it was Love at first site, Instead Chemistry, My Sole Mate, The Love of my Life, The Girl of my Dreams! I literally left the date that night and knew I just went on “My Last First Date” and knew I finally found it! The person you are looking for is just like you, probably going through the normal single channels or gave up on them and not even “Out” there anymore. Jill’s service connects you with likeminded singles. People who are actually looking for a “Quality” relationship and may not even be available to you. I would have never met mine without Jill’s service.  So I too would now say Be open, Trust the process and say “Yes”. Say “Yes” to the opportunity that Jill has to offer. You never know, you may find it too! - John