Singles Sparks - Your Weekly Love Link - APR 13

Hello Lovers, 

Quick reminder for you that texting is not dating. I talk to singles all the time that scrutinize over text messages in early dating. Too many messages, not enough messages, no enthusiasm or too much.  I get it! It’s easy to feel warm and fuzzy when someone you just met (or haven’t even met yet) is sending you those “good morning” messages because they’re thinking of you. But try not to put too much stock in it. Texting too much in between the initial dates can create a false sense of intimacy and security. 

If you met someone who you’re texting a lot but there are no plans being made to get together in real life, more than likely you’ve hit a dead end, friend. Use text to set up in-person dates and use those dates to feel out the connection. Hope that helps. Want to chat more?  You should get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club! We’re chatting tomorrow night in our private roundtable event. Get in there! 

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about dating myths you should forget. Plus, read ourTOP 3 reasons to walk away from a relationship. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE! 

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. 

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always! 

xo,

Jill

LoVe CluB (Members Only) Event - Tonight 4/14 @7PM

This is Jillin' It LoVe CluB Members-only, group roundtable for singles. 

This month's topic is Debunking Myths About Modern Dating.

The myths we will be debunking:

-Online Dating Is Only for People Who Can’t Find Someone in Real Life

-Dating Apps Are Just for Hookups

-There’s One “Perfect Match” for Everyone

-You Have to Be “Ready” for a Relationship or Stay Single Until You Are

-You Shouldn’t Date Someone Who Has a Different Lifestyle or Background

The presentation will also be recorded and emailed to LoVe CluB members. Roundtable and dating advice is not recorded for your privacy. 

Join us at 7pm on Monday, April 14 for the full discussion. Bring your dating questions on any topic, meet and engage with other local singles in a live discussion.

**Participation in this event requires an annual membership to the Jillin' It LoVe CluB.

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 34 and 46 in the CT/NY area? Are you genuine, loving, communicative, and trustworthy? Are you successful with a stable career? Do you have a sense of adventure and a love of travel?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my adventurous and passionate client, C. C is kind, hard working, loving, and trustworthy. As a dual citizen of the US and UK, she is passionate about traveling, art history, museums, cooking, and experiencing different cultures. 

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Dating Myths to Forget

From “All you need is love” to “Once a cheater, always a cheater,” countless relationship myths have been passed down through generations. While they may seem harmless, these beliefs can distort our understanding of love, gender roles, and what it takes to build a healthy relationship.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: To Walk Away from a Relationship

1. One Too Many Crises: No matter how many good qualities exist within it, any relationship will eventually fall apart if the partners face too many traumatic challenges. Some couples have multiple challenges, sometimes without the opportunity to rebalance and regenerate. One partner may blame the other, become too needy, or become too exhausted to keep up his or her end, feeling that they have to get out to save themselves.

2. Battle Fatigue: Continuing and constant disputes will wear down any relationship. Repeated and unresolved arguments most often result in cumulative emotional scarring that is often not as evident on the outside as the damage they cause to the relationship core. The final straw tips the scale for one partner, even if the other is still willing to fight it out.

3. Changing Dreams and Goals: When partners first commit, they most often share similar dreams and goals. Sadly, those initial common desires can change for one partner, while the other is still attached to them.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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