Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - December 28 Edition

Hello LoVers,

If you’re looking at a New Year’s Eve without someone to smooch at midnight, I want to offer you a little food for thought… not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because maybe you need a little reminder that you’re EXACTLY where you’re meant to be. You don’t actually attract what you want, you know?  You attract WHAT YOU ARE. The way you talk to yourself. The way you show up to conversations, dates, and POSSIBILITY itself. So instead of putting pressure on January 1st to magically change everything, try this: LIVE like something good is already on its way to you. LOVE included. Live like you KNOW it’s on the way and you just need to open your hand to catch it. Picture that.

Speak with trust. Choose with ease. Let yourself ENOY the idea that you don’t have to chase what’s meant for you. It’s like your favorite song… You KNOW the beat drop is coming. The pause isn’t empty, it’s intentional. And just like that moment, the right person for you doesn’t arrive randomly or late, they arrive exactly when they’re meant to.

Remember, what is meant for you will not pass by you. It can’t. It won’t. You haven’t missed it. It wasn’t the one that got away because if they got away then…they weren’t the one that was meant to stay. Breathe that in.

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In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about living your life for you. Plus, read our TOP 3ways to attract love in the new year. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS between the ages of 30 and 45..… Are you intelligent, rational, and kind? Do you have a sense of humor and the ability to communicate honestly?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my intellectually curious and grounded client, J. J is ambitious, driven, warm, and thoughtful. A lifelong learner with a deep love for history, politics, and social science, she’s equally drawn to fashion, architecture, music, and the performing arts. She values truth, kindness, and intellectual conversation.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Live Your Life for You

Do you sometimes feel like you don’t love your life? Like, deep inside, something is missing? That’s because we are living someone else’s life. We allowed other people to influence or determine our choices—we are trying to please their expectations. Social pressure is deceiving—we all become prey without noticing it. Before we realize we lost control of our lives, we end up envying how other people live. We can only see the greener grass—ours is never good enough.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Ways to Attract Love in the New Year

1. Upgrade your patterns, not just your profile: If dating keeps repeating itself, the issue isn’t luck—it’s patterns. Reflect on who you choose, how long you stay, and what you ignore early on. Love changes when patterns change.

2. Align your life with the relationship you want: A relationship won’t fix a life that feels disconnected. When your routines, values, and energy reflect stability and purpose, you naturally attract partners who match that.

3. Be visible in the right environments: Love shows up where alignment exists. Spend time in places—online and offline—where people share your values, lifestyle, and stage of life.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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