Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - January 11 Edition

Hello LoVers,

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but just so you know…you ARE going to meet someone, and when you do, it’s going to make perfect sense why it didn’t work out with anyone else. The person who is right for you is out there getting ready to meet you too, doing their own healing, on their own path, longing for you just the same.

A love that feels familiar and right is on its way to you and it’ll be worth the wait. Believe in your timing. What is meant for you will never pass by you.

Want to chat?  Get in touch to schedule a complimentary 10 minute call to see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is a fit for you.

Take a moment to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. It costs you nothing but can give you everything!

+ SAVE THE DATE, VALENTINES! We’re in Fairfield at Elicit Brewing for a Singles Party on Valentines Day, Saturday 2/14, again this year! Tickets going live in a few days!

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about why you should call instead of text. Plus, read our TOP 3 ways to stop being a people pleaser. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS between the ages of 35-45 in the CT/NY/NJ area..… Are you kind, confident, and emotionally mature? Do you value laughter, shared traditions, and real connection? Are you ready to start a family?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my warm, witty, and grounded client, P. P is social without being a party girl — equally happy with a spontaneous plan or a cozy night in. Her personality is a natural mix of playful and steady: friendly, funny, emotionally grounded, and easy to be around. She values family deeply, maintains close relationships with hers, and looks forward to building a family of her own.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: 8 Reasons to Call Rather Than Text

Many of us have a more intimate relationship with our devices than we have with our old friends, our colleagues, and most members of our immediate family. We are more intimately attached to our devices, fonder of them, responsive to them, and attuned to every nuance of their tiny, soulless selves than we are to, say, our first cousins. This is not a trend that will lead towards mental health and a lively old age.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Ways to Stop Being a People Pleaser

1. Become self-aware: The greatest changes begin when we look at ourselves with interest and respect, instead of judgement and denial. It allows for the realization of your impulse to please and the understanding of when it isn’t helpful. It gives a choice to make different moves.

2. Realize that doing too much hurts, rather than helps, relationships: When you do too much for others, you over-function in your relationships, which inevitably leads others to under-function. Though intentions are good, they ultimately hinder the overall effectiveness of relationships.

3. Realize that avoiding problems doesn’t promote growth: When problems arise in our lives, we tend to react by immediately trying to get rid of them and the feelings they bring. Trying to avoid experiencing even the slightest discomfort and pain fuels the urge to please. When we avoid our problems and try to get rid of them immediately, we only make things worse for ourselves in the future.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

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