Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - July 6 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Did you get enough of the fireworks on the 4th? Ok. Good. Because in dating, we’re often told to chase that same spark, instant chemistry, butterflies, the “wow” factor right away. But here’s the thing: real, lasting connection often starts quietly. It’s not always a firework… sometimes, it’s a steady flame, a slow burn, that builds over time into something so much stronger.

This week, I’m challenging you to stop chasing the fireworks and start noticing the glow.

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In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about whether or not age really matters in a relationship. Plus, read our TOP 3 signs you are being too picky in a relationship. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

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Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 50 and 60 in the CT/NYC area? Are you compassionate, spontaneous, respectful, responsible, and hardworking? Are you a good conversationalist, and do you prioritize health and wellness?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my vivacious client, T. T is warm, adventurous, curious, and a great listener. She loves working out, pilates, golf, art, and music. She enjoys learning new things and considers herself a spontaneous planner.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Does Age Really Matter in a Relationship?

For some couples, age is much more than a number. These "age-gap" relationships, sometimes called "May-December" relationships, are comprised of one person who is markedly older than the other. When a significant age gap exists between partners, age becomes a salient issue, sometimes a deal-breaker in the early stages of relationship development.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs You Are Being Too Picky When Dating

1. You Focus on Minor Flaws: If you're regularly ruling people out over superficial traits—like height, hobbies, or the way they text—rather than values or compatibility, it may be more about fear than standards.

2. You Dismiss People Before Really Knowing Them: If you find yourself mentally checking out after one date (or even before) without giving someone a chance to show depth, you might be preemptively protecting yourself from vulnerability.

3. Your Checklist Keeps Growing: When your list of “must-haves” gets longer over time and no one ever seems to meet the bar, it may be a sign you’re creating impossible expectations that prevent connection.

   
   

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The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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