Singles Sparks - Your Weekly Love Link - APR 6

Hello Lovers, 

We’re ENGAGED! Well… not actually ME but I genuinely am so invested and interested in my clients’ love lives that I am celebrating as if it was actually me that got engaged. I mean LOOK at these lovebirds! (Pictured below!) Makes my heart sing! 

There is something I want you to know about how this happened. Chris was my private Matchmaking client. We had worked together for 4 months and Abby was in my complimentary database. I KNEW in my heart that Chris was so close to finding his person. He is such a genuine guy. He was crystal clear on what he wanted and how he envisioned sharing his life with someone special. He trusted me, he trusted the process. He said YES more than he said no. He listened to feedback and advice. He was intentional and open-hearted and HE FOUND LOVE and is now starting the life he had envisioned with an incredible woman! 

I’m so grateful that I was able to be a part of their journey. Want to learn more about becoming a Matchmaking client so I can find you, YOUR LOVE STORY? Click here to schedule a call to see if I can help. 

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the “grass is greener” syndrome. Plus, read ourTOP 3 ways to get out of the friend zone. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE! 

By the way, we WILL have an April event and I’m working on something super cool and special that we’ve never done before so it’s taking a little more time than usual but I’ll have an event up for around 4/17 or 4/18 at the beginning of the week. Sit tight and see ya soon, singles. We’ll send out another email once that’s live so you don’t miss it. 

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. 

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always! 

xo,

Jill

Congratulations Chris and Abby!

Want to learn more about becoming a Matchmaking client so I can find you, YOUR LOVE STORY? Click here to schedule a call to see if I can help. Unfortunately, I can not work with everyone who inquires but scheduling a call is the only way for us to know. Talk soon ;)

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 65 and 78 in the CT area? Are you generous, healthy, loyal, and adventurous? Is family important to you, and do you have a sense of humor?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my generous and quick-witted client, J. J is outgoing, down to earth, and loyal with a fun sense of humor. She has a calming presence about her and enjoys reading, socializing with friends, traveling, dancing, art museums, and movies. She is passionate about her family and loves the beach.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Overcoming the "Grass is Greener" Syndrome.

The beginning of a relationship often feels beautiful and effortless. Everything seems right—the connection is strong and being together feels easy. But over time, quiet intrusive thoughts may start creeping in, like “Is this truly the best I can have?”

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Ways to get Out of the Friendzone

1. Change How They See You: People often stay in the friendzone because they’ve been categorized as “just a friend.” Start dressing better and taking care of your appearance. Be less available—create some distance so they feel your absence. Flirt subtly to create tension (compliments, playful teasing, light physical touch).

2. Increase Your Value: Sometimes, attraction grows when someone sees you in a new light. Pursue your passions, hobbies, and career—confidence and ambition are attractive. Socialize with new people and even date others. Show them you’re desired by others, which can shift their perception.

3. Make Your Intentions Clear: If you’ve been too passive, they might not even realize you’re interested. Drop hints, but also have a real conversation about how you feel. Create moments of intimacy—deep conversations, eye contact, and shared experiences. Confidence is key.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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