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Hello Lovers,
We all have that “thing.” That thing that our eye immediately goes to check for or criticize when we see a picture of ourselves. Or that thing that we fear makes us undesirable or worse, unlovable. That thing that SURELY will be the reason that it can’t or won’t work with a new potential partner. I hear them all the time. Singles share the insecurities that they think they have to confess to me before I can possibly match them. But one thing I know for sure is that when you meet someone you actually connect with you really don’t care and they won’t care about yours either. They won’t see your thinning or graying hairline. They won’t be concerned about an inch or two of HEIGHT once they see your HEART. You realize how insignificant those couple of inches up or down really are. You realize that we’re all the same. We’re all hurt and a little bit broken but we’re all just roaming the earth searching to love and be loved. It’s simple, really.
Open up. Do yourself a favor and stop looking at the “things” you don’t like about yourself in a photo (and in life) and start focusing on the “things” that you do like. Look for the things you DO LIKE in others and stop disqualifying potentially great matches over insignificant bullshit criteria. That’s where the magic happens. Promise.
Heart > Height
Heart > Everything
Annnd with that said… Tickets are LIVE for our next event is on Sept 18th at fan favorite, Elicit Brewing in Fairfield, CT. So get your tickets today! Can’t make the event? Be sure you’re in my complimentary database which is always my first stop for making matches for my clients.
In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the 11 most desirable qualities in a partner. Plus, read our TOP 3 mistakes in dating. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh!
Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.
Big love to you always! Be safe and smart this weekend!
xo,
Jill
Upcoming Event: Singles Mixer on September 18
Join us for a Singles Mixer with Speed Dating Option at Elicit Brewing's Hearsay Bar + Lounge on September 18 at 7pm. We'll bring singles together for you with casual ice-breakers to help you make connections.
There will be some casual, no-pressure icebreakers to help facilitate conversation during the mixer. Plus a speed dating option for those interested in one-on-one dates with other singles.
Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?
Seeking an exceptional match for my intelligent and active client, “K” (36). K is honest, sensitive, and relaxed with a good sense of humor. He is an avid traveler, both domestically and internationally, and enjoys hiking, sports, festivals and breweries, board games, museums, and spending time with friends and family. He likes to brew beer for fun.
K's ideal partner (W, 27-39) is honest and intelligent. She’s easy going, family-oriented, active, adventurous and open for a long term committed partnership. She is a good communicator and enjoys traveling and embarking on new adventures.
HOT TOPIC: The 11 Most Desirable Qualities in a Partner
There are some personal qualities that are guaranteed to sustain and deepen love and commitment over time that are often not as evident early in new relationships. They show up over time and are driven by the core beliefs and personal philosophies of those who are determined to live a meaningful life in whatever endeavors they participate in. There are the 11 qualities that fall into that category.
TOP 3: Mistakes in Dating
Talking Too Much About Yourself: Dominating the conversation can make you seem self-centered and uninterested in your date. Aim for a balanced conversation. Ask questions and show genuine interest in your date’s life and opinions.
Checking Your Phone Frequently: Constant phone use signals that you're distracted and not fully present, which can be disrespectful. Keep your phone away and only check it if absolutely necessary, explaining the situation to your date.
Being Too Negative: Constant negativity can be a turn-off and create a bad vibe, making the date feel more like a therapy session. Focus on positive topics and keep the conversation light, especially on a first date.
Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me
The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…
Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.
I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events, The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!
Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.
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