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Hello Lovers,
Wednesday is going to be action packed! I’ll be starting the day on LIVE TV on WTNH Channel 8 on the CT Buzz segment, which airs between 12:30-1pm, talking about dating in the New Year, sprucing up profiles, sober date ideas and other opportunities for singles. Tune in LIVE or watch it after!
Then, quick costume change and I’ll be off to meet YOU at Elicit Brewing in Fairfield, CT for our New Year, New Boo event. This really is a universal event. So, if you’re wondering if it’s right for you, the answer is YES. The mixer is open aged and the optional Speed Dating add-on is grouped by age range. Space is limited now so do not wait to get your tickets! You never know who you’ll meet! Get tickets today!
This week, I’ll keep my message short and sweet for you. with our new mantra to start the year off right:
I deserve to be with someone who truly wants to be with me.
It’s that simple. We’re no longer settling for people—whether in dating, friendships, or community—who don’t value us. It’s time to seek out spaces where we are wanted, not just tolerated. You deserve to feel seen, heard, and loved in every meaningful relationship. Stop settling for less. Situationships and half hearted, luke warm connections are for the BIRDS! Enough, enough, enough! I’d love to help you connect with people who celebrate you and to help guide you toward attracting the love you truly deserve. Click here to schedule a quick call to see how I can help.
Get in touch with me and get yourself out there, get event tickets, get in my complimentary database, get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club, and let’s make 2025 the year you find your LOVE!
In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about how to stop misreading romantic chemistry.Plus, read our TOP 3 ways to be a more active listener. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!
Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.
Big love to you always! Be safe and smart this long weekend!
xo,
Jill
3 Days Until We're Mixin, Singles!
New Year, New BOO! Join us for a Singles Mixer with Speed Dating option at Elicit Brewing's Hearsay Bar + Lounge with casual ice-breakers to help you make connections. Mixer is open-aged and Speed Dating will be grouped by the age range you indicate at check out but *space is limited for speed dating in each age range so get your tickets ASAP to secure your spot!
Looking for a Promo Code? Those are reserved for LoVe CluB members along with tons of other benefits and perks. Don’t sleep, singles. Get in the LoVe CluB today!
January LoVe CluB (Members Only) Event is 1/21
Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?
Are you a woman in your 30s in the CT/NY area? Are you family-oriented, outgoing, kind, and loyal? Do you enjoy traveling and are ready to start a family?
If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my driven and hardworking client, M. M is a problem solver. He is inquisitive, kind, and loyal. He likes traveling, golfing, and spending time outdoors. He is a provider, and family is very important to him.
HOT TOPIC: How to Stop Misreading Romantic Chemistry
Romantic chemistry is highly difficult to predict, let alone to define. Nevertheless, according to classic research by Helen Fisher, the region of the brain associated with motivation and reward were highly active when looking at their loved ones. Thus, when you hear someone say that they’ve “got chemistry” with someone else, this is likely the cause—namely, activation of brain areas that are brimming with dopamine. However, genuine romantic connection and chemistry are not the only variables that can make our hearts race, palms slicken, and cheeks blush.
TOP 3: Ways to Be a More Active Listener
Be Present: Give your full attention during conversations, minimizing distractions like phones or other devices.
Ask Questions: Show genuine curiosity about the other person's thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
Validate Feelings: Acknowledge and empathize with their emotions, even if you don’t entirely agree.
Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me
The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…
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I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events, The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!
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