Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - February 15 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Hoping you had an acknowledgment of LOVE in one way or another yesterday on Valentine’s Day. Remember that romantic love is only one form of love. Look around and you will see that friends, family, and even your pets all contribute to the love that fills your heart and your days.

If you went on a date this weekend or were hoping to hear from someone, give it 72 hours for clarity before jumping to any conclusions one way or another. Real interest leads to follow-through. If you don’t see a response within a few days, take that as information. Valentines Day can super charge the desire to be in a relationship but don’t let that blur your vision.

Click here to see my interview on Good Morning Connecticut where I talk more about my “72 Hour Rule” for dating this time of year.

Did you know that I’m answering your dating questions on the radio every Thursday at 7:30 am on WTIC? Have a question you want answered? Submit it here.

Want to chat?  Get in touch to schedule a complimentary 10 minute call to see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is a fit for you.

Take a moment to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. It costs you nothing but can give you everything!

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about how to measure compatibility. Plus, read ourTOP 3 modern dating behaviors you should try. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Came OUT for the Valentine’s Day Singles Party

Wow, wow, wow! Close to 100 singles came out to play last night. So many matches made, digits exchanged and connections sparked. Thanks to the brave ones who came out to play!

Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?

LADIES, 37-50, in Southwestern, CT, Burlington, VT, Montreal or the Adirondacks area..… Are you generous, passionate, and giving with your time? Do you enjoy the outdoors? Are you involved with the community and grounded in feminine energy? 

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my kind-hearted, adventurous, and spiritually grounded client, J. Guided by faith, generosity, and curiosity, J values kindness, respect, and open-mindedness. He enjoys music, especially playing guitar. He’s based in Fairfield County, CT and enjoys balances spending time in nature at his Adirondacks retreat.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: How to Measure Compatibility

Meeting someone compatible can be difficult, but being with anyone requires mutual adjustment from both sides. It’s not just about finding someone who “gets” you, but rather knows how to handle boredom, conflict, and daily stressors. Compatibility may look different to everyone, but some values stand true for all.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Modern Dating Behaviors You Should Try

1. Intentional Dating: Rather than aimless swiping or casual hooking up, many people now date with purpose. They state what they want early — whether that’s a long-term partnership, exclusivity, or something more open.

2. Social-First Connections: Dating is less about random apps and more about community and shared activities. Meeting potential partners through friends, groups, events, classes, or shared interests is growing.

3. Clarity and Communication Upfront: Modern daters are increasingly valuing honesty early on — about feelings, boundaries, and expectations. Instead of waiting weeks to define a relationship, conversations about exclusivity, deal-breakers, and values happen sooner.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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