Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - October 12 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Today marks one year since I lost one of my dearest, lifelong friends suddenly. He was someone who LOVED SO BOLDLY, laughed with his WHOLE BODY, and NEVER missed a chance to tell people how much he valued and cared about them.

I’ve been thinking a lot about how he lived. Not in a grand, bucket-list kind of way, but in the everyday… showing UP, saying YES, making people FEEL SEEN.

It reminded me why I do what I do… helping people CONNECT NOW, NOT SOMEDAY.

Because waiting for “the perfect time” to meet someone, say how you feel, or take that next step? We can’t risk it. Time is the one thing we can’t get back. It’s our most valuable nonrenewable resource.

So this week’s message is simple and in memory of my dear friend, Lee: LOVE while you can. GO on the date, SEND the text, FLIRT a little, SHOW UP for your people. That’s how we can honor the ones we’ve loved and lost, by simply LIVING fully.

Today is YOUR day. Shoot your shot and if you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Want to chat? Get in touch to see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club to be matched FIRST.

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the 7 types of intimacy in relationships. Plus, read our TOP 3 ways to move from texting to a real date. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?

LADIES between the ages of 37 and 50… Are you warm, intuitive, kind, and optimistic? Are you open-minded and a good listener? Are you compassionate with a genuine desire to help others?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my kind-hearted, adventurous, and spiritually grounded client, J. Guided by faith, generosity, and curiosity, J values kindness, respect, and open-mindedness. He enjoys music, especially playing guitar, balanced with spending time in nature at his Adirondacks retreat. Thoughtful, creative, and emotionally intelligent, he is a brilliant blend of playful and analytical, diligent and introspective.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: 7 Types of Intimacy in a Relationship

Researchers have found that in the context of sex, intimacy consists of two core elements: self-disclosure and empathy. Partners need to feel comfortable enough with each other to tolerate the vulnerability that comes with being honest about your wants, needs, desires, and fantasies. They must also trust that their partner will respond with openness and empathy rather than ridicule or rejection.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Ways to Move from Texting to a Real Date

1. Set the Tone Early: From the start, show you’re interested in real connection, not just digital banter. Keep the chat light and friendly, but with intention.

2. Keep Momentum Short and Sweet: Don’t let messaging drag on for weeks. After a few good exchanges or a day or two of steady conversation, make your move.

3. Make It Easy to Say Yes: Be specific and low-pressure with your invitation. A clear, simple plan feels approachable and safe.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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