Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - August 10 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Keeping your head above water in the dating POOL can be exhausting. I get it. Every date or relationship that isn’t “the one” can seem like a failure and another reason to give up but I’m begging you to ZOOM OUT.

Not everyone is going to be a match for you but it’s the SINGLES who date with INTENTION and trust that where every they are they are there for a REASON that benefit the most from the experience. Look BEYOND what’s right in front of you. You never know where a connection may lead you. Stay OPEN. (Are you sick of hearing me say that yet?)

I cannot tell you how many times COUPLES have met because of a connection they made at an event. Sarah made a friend that set her up with a close cousin and now they’re married. Kim talked to a stranger who ended up inviting her to a party after the event where she never would have gone and met her husband there. Rob left an event with no real connections but feeling more confident to talk to women and ended up meeting the woman who was getting in the car next to him after they event who was coming from another restaurant. They are married with 3 kids now. At least a dozen times people come to my events and meet NO ONE who is right for them there. Except they met me and now they are in a relationships with my private matchmaking clients. ZOOM OUT.

Please, LET GO OF CONTROL. BE WHERE YOU ARE. GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY. LOOK UP. OPEN YOUR HEART. DROP THE BITTERNESS AND LET LOVE FLOW TO YOU. WATCH WHAT HAPPENS. DEEP BREATH. I LOVE YOU. SEE YOU SOON. SORRY FOR THE CAPS. THIS GETS ME HEATED. :)

Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the loneliness of being right. Plus, read ourTOP 3 ways to build trust in a relationship. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Engagement Announcement!

I was overJOYed to receive the news of another client engagement last weekend. Cheers to the happy couple, John and Jada! LOVE! xoxo  

Thank You for Joining Us on Friday!

Over 60 singles joined us on Friday for a rooftop Singles Mixer! What a great group! Stay tuned for more more frequent, more age specific events + more variety coming in September. Great things to come!

Up next is our LoVe CluB members only event. Get in the LoVe Club here.

Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?

Seeking a family-oriented woman (23–31) in CT. Are you outgoing, kind, loyal, and marriage-minded? Do you enjoy traveling, and are you ready to start a family?

If this sounds like you, you might be a match for my driven and hardworking client, M. M is a problem solver. He is inquisitive, kind, and loyal. He likes traveling, golfing, and spending time outdoors. He is a provider and family is very important to him.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Loneliness of Being Right

In intimate relationships, anger is simply an indication that the other person doesn’t like the way things are going in the relationship and would like things to be better. Conflict often goes awry when couples argue about the “facts” as if they were a couple of attorneys trying to win a case. Not surprisingly, none of this flood of information changes either’s perspective one little bit.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Ways to Build Trust in Relationships

1. Keep Your Word: Follow through on promises, both big and small. Reliability builds confidence over time, showing your partner they can count on you.

2. Be Open and Honest: Share your thoughts, feelings, and intentions clearly. Being transparent—even when it’s uncomfortable—shows that you value honesty over perfection.

3. Listen Without Judgment: Make space for your partner to express themselves without fear of criticism. Feeling heard and accepted fosters emotional safety, the foundation of deep trust.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

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