Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - August 24 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Swipe fatigue is real but singles are going to the extreme and literally going rogue. People are starting to date robots. Read that again. AI can write your profile and even play the part of a “perfect partner,” but it can’t give you butterflies across the dinner table or hold your hand. Some are even leaving real relationships for chatbots, (YES. I AM SERIOUS!) a recipe for heartbreak and, not to be dramatic, a recipe for DISASTER in a world where dating already feels complicated enough. Love isn’t meant to be scripted or programmed. It’s meant to be alive, messy, and human. My advice? Use AI for logistics if you want, but keep intimacy and connection where they belong; between two real people.

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In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the “let them” theory. Plus, read our TOP 3signs you are attracting the wrong type of people. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

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Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Gotta Laugh! Dating is No Joke!

I brought a mic to our last event and oh did we have fun with it! Singles SPILL about first date icks, texting red/green flags and more. Click here to watch.

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 65 and 72 in the NYC area? Are you smart, creative, funny, kind, and emotionally intelligent? Do you appreciate the arts and enjoy the city and beach? Are you family-oriented?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my lovely client, E. E is smart, funny, generous, and creative. A passionate artist who  never says no to a night at the theater, a museum opening, or a show. She enjoys swimming, reading, and recharging by the sea.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The “Let Them” Theory

In a world that feels increasingly complex and uncontrollable, a revolutionary psychological approach has captivated millions. Known as the "Let Them" theory, this concept advocates a radical form of detachment from others' actions, urging us to focus on our reactions and internal states rather than trying to control others or the external world. The simplicity of "Let Them" resonates deeply in today's society, yet its psychological underpinnings and practical applications are rich with complexity.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs You Are Attracting the Wrong Type of People

1. You Feel Drained, Not Energized: Instead of feeling supported or excited, you often feel anxious, insecure, or “not enough” around them. The right connection usually brings peace, not constant stress.

2. They’re Attracted to What You Give, Not Who You Are: If people mostly seek you out for validation, money, looks, or emotional support—but don’t reciprocate—you may be stuck in one-sided dynamics.

3. Your Boundaries Aren’t Respected: If people regularly push your limits or dismiss your needs, and you end up bending to “keep the peace,” that’s a strong indicator you’re drawing in the wrong matches.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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