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Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - August 31 Edition

  • Writer: Jill Dunn
    Jill Dunn
  • Sep 2
  • 3 min read
Singles Sparks, Your Weekly Love Link, Jillin It. Professional, Local, CT matchmaker, Jill Dunn

Hello LoVers,


It’s the unofficial end of summer and the start of the busiest season of the year for matchmakers. In September, Summer flings fade, routines reset, and singles are more serious than ever about finding love and (fun fact!) it also happens to be National Matchmaker’s Day. If you’ve been thinking about working with a matchmaker, let me tell you, now IS the time. At the very least, make sure you’re in my free database while the season is heating up. Remember, if nothing changes then… nothing changes.


September’s public event and LoVe CluB member’s Only Event will both be live this coming week. Stay tuned…


Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.


In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about quiet quitting. Plus, read our TOP 3 signs youare a people pleaser. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!


If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.


Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.


Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Gotta Laugh! Dating is No Joke!

I brought a mic to our last event and oh did we have fun with it! It’s RICHARD on romance.  Yessss, that’s my ex-husband’s name but we’re cool :) THIS Richard has some great advice on keeping a relationship happy for the long term. Listen up! Click here to watch.

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Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 30 and 40 in the NYC area? Are you grounded, ambitious, hardworking, and emotionally intelligent? Are you worldly, open-minded, and ready to start a family? 


If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my vibrant and charismatic client, K. Ambitious and deeply driven, she balances her career success with a strong commitment to family and the people she loves most. She’s endlessly curious about the world and passionate about painting and the arts. She thrives on staying active and living with intention.


If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!


HOT TOPIC: Quiet Quitting in a Relationship

Quiet quitting describes the practice of doing the minimum you can do and still managing to hold onto a job or, in this case, a relationship. If you’re the partner who is still invested in the relationship, it can be dismaying to see your partner seem to evaporate into thin air over time. They may still be “showing up” physically, but you feel that they are as ephemeral as a ghost in terms of the substance they bring to the relationship.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

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TOP 3: Signs You Are a People Pleaser

  1. Difficulty Saying No: You often agree to things you don’t want to do, even when it leaves you overwhelmed or resentful.

  2. Overprioritizing Others: You put other people’s needs, opinions, or comfort above your own—sometimes at the expense of your well-being.

  3. Seeking Constant Approval: You feel anxious about disappointing others and rely heavily on external validation to feel good about yourself.


Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles




Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.


I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!


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