Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - December 21 Edition

Hello LoVers,

During this season, I’m wishing you BIG LOVE in whatever way you’re celebrating, or simply moving through right now. A gentle reminder: the quality of your life isn’t measured by what’s missing, it’s shaped by what you choose to notice. There is LOVE around you right now, even if it doesn’t look the way you imagined yet. Let it count.

Self-love is the realest love and the foundation of everything else. The way you love yourself sets the standard for how others get to love you. (Yes, read that again.)

And because this season is about true love, starting with you, I want to share something special. The Jillin’ It LoVe CluB is where intention meets action. Members get live monthly discussions and Q&A, preferred matchmaking database status, real tools to help you date smarter and with confidence and simply get more from me. This isn’t a swipe app, it’s education, community, and momentum for singles who are serious about fostering meaningful connections.

Tomorrow, 12/22, we’re hosting December’s Love Club Exclusive event: “Dating Like It’s Already Happening - Small Shifts for BIG LOVE ENERGY” so join the LoVe CluB today to get full access to the presentation and live discussion. Normally $750 for a full year, you can save $100 with code BIGLOVE through 11pm on NYE.

Use code BIGLOVE at checkout to save $100 on a full year of LoVe CluB access and we’ll send you the link to join us live tomorrow.

Want to chat? Get in touch to see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club to be matched FIRST.

Take a moment to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. It costs you nothing but can give you everything!

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the benefits of effective listening. Plus, read our TOP 3 Christmas date ideas. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

LoVe CluB Monthly Roundtable 12/22 Tomorrow!

December 22, 7pm. This is Jillin' It LoVe CluB Members-only, group roundtable for singles. This month's topic is Dating Like It’s Already Happening: Small Shifts, Big Love Energy for 2026. Before love arrives, it shows up in small ways — in how we respond, what we allow, how we speak to ourselves, and the energy we bring into dating.This last LoVe CluB presentation of the year is not about learning more. It’s about stepping into the version of you who is already loved, already chosen, already emotionally safe and dating from that energy going forward.

**Participation in this event requires an annual membership to the Jillin' It LoVe CluB. This ticket pays for the first month. Join the LoVe CluB here.

Use code BIGLOVE to save $100 on your annual membership through 11pm on NYE

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS between the ages of 35 and 45 in CT/NYC..… Are you ambitious, confident, social, kind, and positive? Do you have strong family values and enjoy being active? Are you witty and clever?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my warm and thoughtful client, R. R is ambitious, positive, easy-going, and confident. She is community-oriented, values deep connections, and is passionate about her work. She enjoys working out and being outdoors. Humor and laughter are very important to her.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Benefits of Effective Listening

Research has shown that effective listening leads to enhanced positive affect, greater feelings of being heard, and a stronger sense of alliance in relationships. Quality listening is an essential part of beginning, maintaining, and growing fulfilling relationships. When listening is understood as an interactive relational process, it contributes to more fulfilling personal relationships and meaningful community.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Christmas Date Ideas

1. Cook a Christmas Dinner for Two: The best part about the holidays is the food. Before whatever official holiday plans you have coming up with family, why not have an intimate Christmas dinner for two?

2. Have a Christmas Movie Marathon: Whether you love a made-for-Netflix rom-com, a modern holiday classic, or the real-deal, old-school Christmas specials, there’s so much seasonal watching to do this time of year.

3. Go Sledding or Ice Skating: Throw on your warmest winter clothes, grab a sled, and get to a snowy slope. Playing around in the snow is the perfect place for a romantic montage. An ice skating date is another romantic outdoor activity. Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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