Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - December 7 Edition

Hello LoVers,

So many singles unknowingly treat their love life like they’re waiting for a holiday Hallmark-movie moment… for the universe to drop someone in their path, timing magically aligns, and suddenly it all unfolds perfectly. I’m a hopeful romantic too but… most connections don’t arrive like a holiday miracle. The people who participate, who show up, who put themselves in the rooms where connection can actually happen… they are the ones who reap the rewards (and the relationships). Remember: studies show that colder months increase our desire for emotional closeness, which can heighten attraction but also cloud judgment. No one’s knocking on your door, so get out and create the moment.

And… speaking of rooms that spark connection… our Singles Holiday Soirée is in 4 days! If you’re done waiting and ready to start choosing your life, your joy, your community, your next great conversation, then this is your moment. Here’s your holiday magic: Use promo code NICELIST for $15 off your ticket and come meet amazing humans, feel the energy of the season, and step into the version of you who doesn’t wait… you create.

See you at the Soirée, singles! Get your tickets here! xo

Take a moment to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. It costs you nothing but can give you everything! You may get an email or a call from me or someone on my team to connect you with a private matchmaking client. Take that call!

Want to chat? Get in touch to see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club to be matched FIRST.

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the common cognitive biases in relationships.Plus, read our TOP 3 signs to bring someone home for the holidays. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Single Bells! Singles Holiday Soiree!

Single Bells! Single Bells!

Join us for a holiday soirée like no other, curated especially for the vibrant singles in our community. This is an open-aged event. All are welcome!

And because 'tis the season of giving,*Bring a small wrapped gift to participate in the gift exchange. This'll be fun and a great way to get to connect with other singles.

Remember, dressing to impress isn't just a suggestion—it's your ticket to staying on the "nice list" and making a memorable impression. So, come decked out in your finest attire and get ready to connect, celebrate, and perhaps find that special someone amidst the festivities!

GET TICKETS!

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS between the ages of 37 and 47 in CT/NJ/NYC..… Are you intelligent, humorous, social, nurturing, and grounded? Are you emotionally intelligent, have strong morals, and enjoy traveling?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my warm, accomplished, and compassionate client, M. M is nurturing, caring, funny, and extroverted. She values humor, intelligence, emotional maturity, and a balanced lifestyle built around mutual support. She is an avid baker and cook, enjoys being active, and travels frequently. She has strong family ties and a rich social life.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Common Cognitive Biases in Relationships

Romantic relationships can be incredibly enriching and satisfying experiences, yet they often involve intricate dynamics and hurdles to overcome. A critical barrier many couples encounter in maintaining a strong and healthy partnership is the influence of cognitive biases. These mental shortcuts, which frequently lead to illogical conclusions, can harm romantic partnerships' well-being.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs to Bring Someone Home for the Holidays

1. You’ve Had the “Where Is This Going?” Conversation: If you’ve both talked about intentions — even casually — and you’re on the same page about dating with interest and consistency, that’s a green light.

2. You’ve Been Consistently Seeing Each Other for a Bit: If it feels like a real connection (not just talking or sporadic dates), they likely won’t feel out of place meeting your family.

3. They’ve Shown Interest in Meeting the People Who Matter to You: If they ask about your family or are curious about your traditions, that’s a strong sign they’d be open to joining you for the holidays.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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