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Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - January 4 Edition

  • Writer: Jill Dunn
    Jill Dunn
  • Jan 5
  • 3 min read
Singles Sparks, Your Weekly Love Link, Jillin It. Professional, Local, CT matchmaker, Jill Dunn

Hello LoVers,


Happy New Year! Andddd it’s “Dating Sunday”…the busiest day of the year on the dating apps. So what does this mean for you? It means activity is high, but discernment is everything.

If you’re logging on today, think quality over volume: update one current photo, send one message rooted in curiosity (not chemistry), or suggest a simple, real-world in-person meet up if the energy is there. Then hit reply to this message and tell me what you did… not how it turned out, just how you chose to show up differently.


But, of course, if you’re realizing you don’t actually want to crowdsource your love life or guess your way through another year, there’s a more intentional way to date (and you know it) with guidance, clarity, and momentum… you know where to find me.


Want to chat? Get in touch to see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club to be matched FIRST ahead of the thousands of singles in my networks.


Take a moment to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. It costs you nothing but can give you everything!


In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about dating trends for 2026. Plus, read our TOP 3goals for 2026 to improve your dating life. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!


Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.


Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS above the age of 70 in the CT/NY area..… Are you thoughtful, intelligent, and active? Do you enjoy reading and thoughtful conversations about culture and creativity?


If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my outgoing and upbeat client, A. A is friendly, generous, and honest. Reading is a cornerstone of her life, and she hopes her partner feels the same. She loves being outside—walking is a daily ritual. Swimming, biking, and light hiking are favorite activities, and the ocean has her heart. She walks the beach year-round and would love a partner to share that joy. She enjoys theatre, concerts, and art museums. Her family is at the core of her life. She is looking for a partner who respects and embraces close family bonds.


If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!


HOT TOPIC: Dating Trends for 2026

After years of breadcrumbing, ghosting, and wasting time decoding messages, singles are over the confusion. They want dating that feels honest, joyful, low-pressure, and aligned with their values. If you’re single and searching, here are some dating trends to look out for and to practice in the upcoming year.


Read about it here and tell me what you think!

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TOP 3: Goals for 2026 to Improve Your Dating Life

  1. Lead With Emotional Availability: Being open about feelings isn’t a vulnerability — it’s the new sexy. Emotional vibe coding — where honest emotional expression and empathy are prioritized — is shaping how people connect in 2026.

  2. Build Real Connections Offline: Experts and dating culture reports show that in-person experiences are resurging — especially social activities like sports, community events, and hobby groups.

  3. Date with Values, Not Just Profiles: Daters in 2026 are prioritizing empathy, kindness, friendship compatibility, and shared life values — not just hobbies.


Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

Twitter post with text: "Being single means using the other half of your bed for your remotes, phone, pillow, and snacks." Profile name above.

Text on a white background reads: "Being single past 30 is like playing hide and seek except no one's looking for you."










CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles


Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.


I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!


CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles Jill Dunn Jillin' It



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