Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - July 13 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Most singles have a love/hate relationship with dating apps. Let’s be honest, it’s usually more hate than love. Sure, they’re convenient, but they often lead to burnout, ghosting, and connections that fizzle fast. Meeting someone in the wild, at an event, a concert, coffee shop, or even the produce aisle offers something apps can’t, natural chemistry, shared moments, and an unfiltered sense of someone’s vibe.

Studies even show that couples who meet offline report deeper initial connections and longer-lasting relationships. This week, try shifting your focus back to real life. Make eye contact, give a compliment to a stranger, or start a conversation. A simple “Is that any good?” or “I love your dog!” Might be all it takes. Love might be standing right next to you. Go get ‘em.

BIG NEWS will be coming in the following weeks regarding SINGLES EVENTS (think: MORE events + more variety + more AGE specific events too!) and also some announcements regarding new members of the Jillin’ It team and how they’ll be supporting YOU! So excited to share. Great things to come!

But first, SAVE THE DATE: Friday, August 8th we’ll be at Sign of the Whale in Stamford, CT for a Rooftop Singles Mixer. Tickets go live this week! See you soon, singles. xo

Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the power of eye-gazing. Plus, read our TOP 3signs someone is untrustworthy. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 24 and 30 in the CT/NYC area? Are you considerate, ambitious, intelligent, outgoing, and active? Do you have strong family values and a sense of humor? Do you love animals and enjoy new experiences?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my intelligent and easy going client, L. L is well rounded, adventurous, gentle and ambitious with her career goals. Living a healthy lifestyle is important to her, and she is very active. She just bought a boat and loves spending time on the water. She is also an ardent animal lover.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Power of Eye-Gazing

Are you a man between the ages of 24 and 30 in the CT/NYC area? Are you considerate, ambitious, intelligent, outgoing, and active? Do you have strong family values and a sense of humor? Do you love animals and enjoy new experiences?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my intelligent and easy going client, L. L is well rounded, adventurous, gentle and ambitious with her career goals. Living a healthy lifestyle is important to her, and she is very active. She just bought a boat and loves spending time on the water. She is also an ardent animal lover.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

TOP 3: Signs Someone is Untrustworthy

1. Inconsistent Storytelling: Research shows that liars often struggle to keep their narratives straight, not because they forget the truth, but because they juggle multiple cognitive tasks. For instance, one study found that the cognitive difficulty of simultaneously providing narrative details and maintaining consistency slows liars' response times and introduces inconsistencies in their deception.

2. Overemphasis on Honesty: If someone insists they’re honest and does so unprompted and repeatedly, this is likely a smoke screen. Research shows that overemphasizing integrity, especially without prompting, can be a strategy to mask or divert attention from deceptive behaviors and preempt suspicion.

3. Excessive Flattery: While compliments can be warm and affirming, exaggerated flattery—especially early in a relationship—may be used to lower your guard. Research shows that such praise often serves as a manipulation tactic rather than a sign of genuine esteem.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insight

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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