Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - July 20 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Some say dating is a “numbers game” and sure, the more opportunities you have, the greater the chance you’ll meet someone. But QUALITY is so much more important than QUANTITY. The real shift happens when you slow down, get honest with yourself, and stop confusing being “busy” with being intentional. The right match isn’t found by doing more, it’s found by doing it better. Meaningful connections come from clarity, not chaos. Be thoughtful about who you share your time, energy, and heart with.

Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

A new EVENT is LIVE! Plus, stay tuned for more more age specific events + more variety +  coming this Fall.. Great things to come!

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the dangers of stonewalling. Plus, read ourTOP 3 ways to make someone feel loved. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Summertime Mixer on August 8!

Join us at Sign of the Whale's rooftop bar to mix and mingle with local singles and potentially meet your match. Meeting other singles is tough... so we're make it easy by bringing together singles for you at this fun, laid back event!

Check-in starts at 6:30pm. This is an open-aged mixer so singles of all ages are welcomed to attend. However, keep in mind events are typically attended mainly by singles ranging from 30-55. There is typically someone for everyone. Extended happy hour pricing will be offered.

Looking for a promo code? Those are reserved for LoVe CluB members only. Get in the LoVe Club here.

GET TICKETS HERE!

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 47 and 57 in the CT/NYC area? Are you honest, laid back, kind, upbeat, social and independent? Do you have style and enjoy attending social events? Do you like to travel?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my adventurous and intelligent client, A. A is social, easy going, generous, funny and loyal. She loves to read and enjoys live music, comedy shows, and Broadway shows. She enjoys tennis, pickleball, skiing, and scuba diving. She has many passion projects and spends time volunteering for various causes.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Dangers of Stonewalling

Imagine you're in the middle of a heated conversation with your partner. You're expressing your frustrations, hoping for a response, a sign that they understand or care about what you're saying. But instead, they go quiet. Their eyes glaze over, arms crossed, as they stare past you like you're not even there. This scenario, where one partner emotionally shuts down, is all too familiar for many couples and is known as stonewalling. Though often unintentional, this silent response can devastate a relationship, slowly eroding trust and connection.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insight

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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