Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - July 26 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Last weekend, I had the incredible privilege of celebrating the wedding of one of my matchmaking clients. Watching him marry the woman he calls "the love of my life" was a beautiful reminder of why I do this work.

As I was rereading the testimonial he wrote after they got engaged, one thought kept coming back to me:

Every "yes" expands you.

Every "yes" prepares you.

It opens your mind to new possibilities. It opens your heart to new people. It stretches your comfort zone and teaches you something about yourself, about connection, and about what truly matters to you.

That's why I encourage people to SAY YES more often. Not to everyone, and never in spite of red flags. But to opportunities rooted in curiosity instead of fear.

Too many people believe a date is only successful if it leads to a relationship. I disagree. Every date that leaves you with greater clarity, confidence, or self-awareness is moving you forward. Every "yes" is preparing you for the person you'll eventually recognize as the right one.

John understood that every introduction gave both of us more information. It refined the search, prepared him for the relationship he truly wanted, and eventually led him to his last first date.

I truly believe the same is possible for you.

If you're ready to say yes to a more intentional path to love, I'd love to hear your story. Through thoughtful matchmaking, honest (not always easy to hear) guidance, and carefully curated introductions, we'll create meaningful opportunities for the kind of relationship you're truly looking for.

You know, sometimes the most life-changing "yes" is the one you almost didn't say.

Get in touch to schedule a complimentary 15 minute call to see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is a fit for you and let's see what's possible.

Not quite ready for full-service matchmaking? Join the Jillin' It Singles Network to be considered for current and future clients. You never know…

In this week's HOT TOPIC, we're talking about narcissists. Plus, read our TOP 3 phrases that destroy relationships. And don't miss this week's funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week's Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 15 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Incase you missed it…

Don't hide parts of yourself in the hope that you will be easier to love.

Tap the pic for the full story...

Did you know that I’m answering your dating questions on the radio every Thursday at 7:30 am on The Christine & Salt Show on 96.5 TIC? Have a question you want answered on air? Submit it here.

Another Jillin' It Success Story!

Congratulations to the happy couple! It was my absolute pleasure to be invited to celebrate the wedding of another beautiful couple I had the honor of connecting.

Read John's story HERE. Click on "A Client's Love Story" at the bottom of the page.

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

MEN, ages 30-40, in CT and NY ... Are you kind, confident, and emotionally aware? Do you appreciate communication, have a good sense of humor, and enjoy trying new things?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my warm and curious client, N. N is caring, supportive, and believes the best relationships are built on honesty, laughter, and shared experiences. Whether she's paddle boarding, traveling, trying a new restaurant, or spending time with her big Italian family, she enjoys making the most of every opportunity to connect with the people around her.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more, email me!

HOT TOPIC: Are You Dating a Narcissist?

We throw around the words sociopath and narcissist casually, often to describe an ex who ghosted after three months or someone who always has to be the center of attention. Often, individuals with these traits present as charismatic, magnetic, charming, and intense, at least at first.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Phrases That Destroy Relationships

1. "You Always" or "You Never": These words are not making a complaint about a specific behavior. Instead, they make character verdicts: sweeping indictments that leave the recipient with nothing to defend against and nowhere to go.

2. "I'm Fine" (When You're Not): Passive withdrawal masquerading as resolution is one of the quietest trust-destroyers in relationships. When a partner says this, they are deferring it and building a private ledger of grievances that the other partner doesn't know exists.

3. "You're So Sensitive": This phrase typically arrives as a dismissal: the speaker intends to de-escalate. It delivers contempt. This is the single most dangerous communication pattern identified in relationship science.

   
   

   Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals.

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Single

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singl

Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.l to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.all to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.