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Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - November 30 Edition

  • Writer: Jill Dunn
    Jill Dunn
  • 6 days ago
  • 5 min read
Singles Sparks, Your Weekly Love Link, Jillin It. Professional, Local, CT matchmaker, Jill Dunn

Hello LoVers,


I have NEVER done this before but, this year has been extraordinary. The connections, the momentum, the growth, the friendships, and the relationships that have formed through the Jillin’ It community have truly blown me away. I’ve been reflecting on the people who show up with courage and curiosity and I want to celebrate and encourage that energy. So…


For two days only, I’m gifting a complimentary second ticket with EVERY ticket purchased for our Holiday Singles Soiree on 12/11 so you can bring a single friend, a wing-person, or even offer it to your coworker or neighbor to spread the LoVe! This isn’t something I normally offer, but it just feels right this year to end the season with a gesture to encourage generosity and togetherness.


To claim yours just get the 2-for-1 ticket here before 12/1 at 11:59 pm and we’ll email you to get the deets on your guest.


P.S. Only 30 are available so don’t wait!


Sunday + Monday only


I want as many wonderful humans in the room as possible because magic happens when great people collide. If you’ve felt a pull to join us… this is your moment. Let’s end the year with warmth, laughter, and maybe even the connection you’ve been waiting for.


As we enter the final month of the year, I want to leave you with this: December isn’t the end, it’s a runway. This is your time to be intentional. Be someone who smiles first, who asks real questions, who shows up with a spirit of invitation instead of hesitation. We often underestimate how deeply small moments can impact others and how much they can expand us.


So make one brave effort to connect this month whether it’s saying yes to an event (wink,wink), starting a conversation, or offering a sincere compliment. You never know whose favorite December memory you might become. And you never know who might become yours.


See you at the Singles Holiday Soiree, singles! Get your tickets here! xo


Take a moment to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. It costs you nothing but can give you everything! You may get an email or a call from me or someone on my team to connect you with a private matchmaking client. Take that call!


Want to chat? Get in touch to see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club to be matched FIRST.


In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the scientifically proven benefits of gratitude.Plus, read our TOP 3 tips for dating during the holidays. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!


Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.


Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Single Bells! Singles Holiday Soiree!

Single Bells! Single Bells!


Claim your 2-for-1 ticket here before 12/1 at 11:59 pm! Join us for a holiday soirée like no other, curated especially for the vibrant singles in our community. This is an open-aged event. All are welcome!


And because 'tis the season of giving,*Bring a small wrapped gift to participate in the gift exchange. This'll be fun and a great way to get to connect with other singles.


Remember, dressing to impress isn't just a suggestion—it's your ticket to staying on the "nice list" and making a memorable impression. So, come decked out in your finest attire and get ready to connect, celebrate, and perhaps find that special someone amidst the festivities!


GET TICKETS!

Woman in green dress smiles, holding mistletoe. Red background promotes "Single Bells" singles holiday soiree on Dec 11, 7pm.

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS between the ages of 40 and 50 in CT/NJ/NYC..… Are you respectful, considerate, loyal, trustworthy, and confident? Do you communicate well and have a positive energy? Do you prioritize health and enjoy traveling?


If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my sweet and kind client, E. E is open-minded, social, upbeat, and loyal. She enjoys traveling, the beach, and watching sports. She has a ballet background and is passionate about all forms of dance. She enjoys exploring new places, music and art, and attending shows. Work life balance is very important to her, and she is ready to start a family.


If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!


HOT TOPIC: 7 Scientifically Proven Benefits of Gratitude

"Stop feeling sorry for yourself," we are often told. And while it can be hard to avoid self-pity entirely, mentally strong people choose to exchange self-pity for gratitude. Whether you choose to write a few sentences in a gratitude journal or simply take a moment to silently acknowledge all that you have, giving thanks can transform your life.


Read about it here and tell me what you think!

Man in glasses and suit crying, standing in an office setting. A framed picture is in the background. He appears emotional and distressed.

TOP 3: Tips for Dating During the Holidays

  1. Keep It Low-Pressure: The holidays can be an emotional time for people. Keep plans casual. Avoid making it feel like a “holiday milestone” unless you both want that.

  2. Use the Season as a Conversation Starter: It’s prime time for favorite foods, travel plans, and what they’re grateful for. These topics create easy, meaningful conversation without feeling too deep.

  3. Avoid Holiday Expectations Too Early: Don’t assume you’re meeting families, going to dinners, or doubling up on holiday events. Let the relationship set its own pace.


Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

Person in a green, decorated sweater dances energetically on a studio set at night. The background shows a city skyline. The mood is playful.

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

A person gestures while speaking, wearing a patterned shirt, indoors. Text reads: "When someone asks about your dating life... it's just a long string of very bad luck."

Three couples embrace by a lake, while a man drinks alone beside a cooler. Text above: "When you’re single, but all your friends are in relationships."










CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles


Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.


I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!


CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles Jill Dunn Jillin' It



Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.l to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.all to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

 
 
 

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