Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - October 19 Edition

Hello LoVers,

At our last event I asked singles: “Rate your last date on a scale of ‘marry them’ to ‘block them.’” The answers were… eye-opening to say the least. We definitely had some laughs over the answers but it’s a fun reminder of how different everyone’s dating experiences can be (and why a personalized approach to finding a partner makes all the difference.) You can catch the video on the Jillin’ It Instagram! Some of the stories are pretty unbelievable!

I also have some exciting news to share! My brother Anthony has officially joined the Jillin’ It team as our Director of Client Empowerment! He’ll be offering personalized guidance to help singles find the Jillin’ It experience that best fits their goals. So if you’ve been thinking about working with us, there’s a good chance you’ll cross paths with him soon. I promise, you’re in trusted hands. He’s my best bud and my greatest confidant… I’ve known the guy his whole life. :)

I couldn’t be more excited to have him on board as we continue growing our mission of helping singles date with CONFIDENCE and CERTAINTY and find the LOVE they so greatly desire and deserve. Here for you. xo

Hey, take a sec to GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. You never know who you’ll meet…

Want to chat? Get in touch to see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club to be matched FIRST.

In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the signs of compatibility. Plus, read our TOP 3signs of spending too much time with a partner. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

GUYS between the ages of 50 and 60… Are you compassionate, spontaneous, respectful, responsible, and hardworking? Are you a good conversationalist? Do you prioritize health and wellness?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my client, T. T is warm, adventurous, curious, and a great listener. She loves working out, pilates, golf, art, and music. She enjoys learning new things and considers herself a spontaneous planner.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Signs of Compatibility

Meeting someone compatible can be difficult, but being with anyone requires mutual adjustment from both sides. It’s not just about finding someone who “gets” you, but rather knows how to handle boredom, conflict, and daily stressors. Compatibility may look different to everyone, but some values stand true for all.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs of Spending Too Much Time with a Partner

1. Craving Time Alone: If you are looking for excuses to take a break from couple time to hibernate and rejuvenate, you may need to do just that. True, this does not always mean you need a break from your partner; it could just mean you need a break from the world. But either way, a solo retreat may help you put the feeling into perspective.

2. Irritability: If you feel frustrated, anxious, or unsettled, there can be a tendency to blame it on your partner because he/she is the closest target. But there are many hormonal, circumstantial, or emotional causes of feeling irritable that have nothing to do with your significant other. Nonetheless, taking a break to relax or exercise can provide mental clarity, and often improve feelings of irritability regardless of the cause.

3. Seeking to Socialize as a Single: Many people want to broaden their circle of contacts, spend more time with family, reconnect with old friends, or meet new ones. But desiring to take this journey flying solo can indicate needing space from one’s partner. And wanting to make new friends as a single often reveals relational dissatisfaction, and may signal the bloom is off the rose.

   
   

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CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

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I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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