Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - September 14 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Don’t you just love September weather? It’s one of my favorite times of year for sure. Crisp air, fresh starts, and a little tug on the heartstrings that always comes with change. Seasons shift in nature, but they shift in our lives too… especially in our dating lives. Every season of dating whether it’s a string of first dates, a tough breakup, or the sweetness of a thriving relationship carries its own wisdom. And when we pause to reflect, each cycle makes us stronger, clearer, and more prepared for the love and relationships that we truly desire and deserve.

By the way… Are you in my free database?  Remember, this is the first place I look for matches for my private clients and I have some INCREDIBLE singles that I’m searching for right now.

Want to chat? Get in touch so I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

New EVENT IS LIVE + In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the savior complex. Plus, read our TOP 3 signs of true chemistry. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Upcoming Event at ZSTRICT on September 23!

Step onto the virtual green and swing into romance at our exciting Swing Into Love: Speed Dating + Singles Mixer! We'll bring singles together for you. This one is for singles in their 30s + 40s or about 5 years within the range. Don’t overthink it. Grab a ticket today - They are LIMITED for this event.

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are for LoVe CluB members only. Click here to join.

GET TICKETS HERE!

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 59 and 65 in the CT/NYC area? Are you accomplished, confident, and secure? Are you passionate about what you? Are you emotionally available with a strong ability to communicate?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my vibrant and well-rounded client, MS. MS values intellectual connection and great conversation. Curious and well-traveled, she appreciates culture, art, and fashion, and loves to laugh. A free spirit at heart, she thrives on new experiences, whether that’s exploring a new restaurant, traveling, or simply enjoying life’s adventures. Health and fitness are central to her life, and she seeks a partner who shares that healthy, engaged lifestyle.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: Understanding the Savior Complex

The savior complex is an ongoing hard-to-control compulsion to help others, an urge that can run so deep that it happens without you even realizing it, causing you discomfort until things feel “fixed.” It’s not a terrible thing to want to help others—far from it. Supporting the people you care about may bring a deep sense of satisfaction. But when that desire to help turns into a compulsion to “save,” there can be unintended consequences. 

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs of True Chemistry

1. The Energy Feels Effortless: Conversations flow without forcing, silences feel comfortable, and time passes quickly when you’re together. You don’t have to “try hard” to connect—it just clicks.

2. Mutual Attraction is Obvious: There’s a spark—you catch each other’s eyes often, smile more, and maybe even mirror each other’s body language. The pull is both emotional and physical.

3. You’re Excited to See Each Other Again: You leave interactions feeling energized instead of drained, and both of you naturally look forward to the next time. There’s eagerness, not just politeness.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

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