Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - September 21 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Wow! It’s our 100th Singles Sparks annnd it’s my birthday so it got me thinking about milestones. Just like these both mark progress or growth, your dating journey has milestones too.  Success in dating is relative. It isn’t only about finding “the one.” It’s also about the first time you felt butterflies again, the first time you said no to someone who wasn’t right, or the first time you asked for what you really wanted. Those wins deserve to be CELEBRATED too!

My birthday GIVEAWAY gift to YOU? One lucky reader can choose from either a free mini coaching session, a dating profile audit or a ticket to an upcoming event! To enter just get in the free database before 9/26 at midnight OR if you’re already in the database reply to this email with your “birthday wish” for your love life and you’ll be entered.  Remember, the database is the first place I look for matches for my private clients and I have some INCREDIBLE singles that I’m searching for right now so it really is a WIN/WIN. I’ll reach out to the winner via email on 9/29.

Want to chat? Get in touch so I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

2 DAYS UNTIL OUR EVENT!+ In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the key to strong relationships. Plus, read our TOP 3 types of mixed signals. And don’t miss this week’s funniesat the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click hereto schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Only 2 DAYS Until our Event!  Get Tickets!

Spots are limited for this venue so if you’re planning to come please get your tickets today before they’re gone! We make every effort to keep the man/woman ratio for speed dating exactly even so please don’t wait. GET YOUR TICKETS TODAY!

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are for LoVe CluB members only. Click here to join.

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Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 65 and 75 in the Tri-State area? Are you confident, understanding, and emotionally intelligent and passionate about life? Proud of your accomplishments? Have a great life and just looking for a lovely woman to enjoy it with?

If this sounds like you, you may be a match for my dynamic and compassionate client, L. She is known for her kindness, generosity, honesty, and optimism.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Key to Strong Relationships

We all know relationships matter. But what if we’ve misunderstood where strong relationships really begin? What if the quality of your connection with others—whether at home, at work, or in the world—rests on something most people overlook entirely: your relationship and connection with yourself?

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Types of Mixed Signals

1. Hot and Cold Behavior: One day they’re texting nonstop, making plans, and acting super into you. The next, they go distant, don’t reply for hours (or days), and seem distracted when you’re together. Leaves you wondering if their interest is genuine or situational.

2. Words Don’t Match Actions: They say, “I really like you” or “I want something serious,” but they don’t make consistent effort to see you or prioritize you. Inconsistency between what they say and what they do is a classic mixed signal.

3. Couple-Like Behavior Without Commitment: They act affectionate, introduce you to friends, or do relationship things. But when you ask where it’s going, they say, “I’m not ready for anything serious.”  This keeps you stuck in a situationship, not a real relationship.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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