Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - September 7 Edition

Hello LoVers,

Repeat after me: “Cuffing is CANCELED!” Cuffing Season is the time, usually from October to February, when some singles seek out short-term relationships for comfort during the colder months. As this season approaches, it’s easy to get swept up in temporary comfort but PLEASE remember, settling for convenience isn’t the same as building something real and more than anything it is just pushing off your potential to meet your FOREVER partner. So this is me in your ear telling you “NO! Cut it out. You deserve so much MORE!”

Want to dive deeper into how to navigate this season with clarity and purpose? LoVe CluB members will get the full download at our members only LoVe CluB event next Saturday. You don’t want to miss this one. Join us and let’s make this season about intentional connection, not just quick fixes.

Are you in my free database?  Remember, this is the first place I look for matches for my private clients. You never know…

Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

New EVENT IS LIVE + In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about how to express feelings in relationships. Plus, read our TOP 3 ways to get out of the friendzone. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Upcoming Event at ZSTRICT on September 23!

Step onto the virtual green and swing into romance at our exciting Swing Into Love: Speed Dating + Singles Mixer! We'll bring singles together for you.

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are for LoVe CluB members only. Click here to join.

GET TICKETS HERE!

Singles Spotlight: Is HE Your Match?

Are you a woman between the ages of 27 and 35ish in the CT area? Are you educated, down-to-earth, social, genuine, and kind? Are you gentle yet confident, with strong communication skills and an open heart?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my easy going and genuine client, JW. Educated and independent, JW is deeply caring and thoughtful, always putting his loved ones first. When he’s not diving into a good book, catching the latest film, or exploring anime and pop culture, he can be found experimenting in the kitchen or discovering new restaurants as a true foodie. He’s also passionate about adventure and travel, always eager to explore new places and experiences.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: How to Express Feelings in Relationships

We are wired to have feelings. If we express these feelings in off-putting ways, this wiring can invite a disconnect in our relationships. By contrast, expressing feelings in a safe way can lead to our feeling more connected, especially to loved ones. Knowing how to express feelings tactfully is therefore vital if you want to feel close to people and to sustain your relationships.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Ways to Get Out of the Friendzone

1. Shift the Dynamic: Stop acting like “just a friend” if you want to be seen as more. Create space for attraction by pulling back slightly, setting boundaries, or saying no when you normally would always say yes. This change helps them see you differently.

2. Signal Romantic Interest Clearly: Flirt playfully instead of keeping everything platonic. Use compliments that hint at attraction. Suggest one-on-one plans that feel like dates, not just hangouts.

3. Communicate Honestly: At some point, you’ll need to share your feelings directly. Clarity removes guessing games and shows confidence which itself is attractive.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles

Curious about Matchmaking? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

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