Singles Sparks - Your Weekly Love Link - APR 27

Hello Lovers, 

Let’s make a MATCH! I’ll be seeing you in 4 days at our Match.Box Mixer in Norwalk! Men’s tickets are all that’s left. If I’m able to reopen women’s tickets I will. Match.box is a software that uses relationship science to find you your most compatible match at the party so I’d like for the number to be even so everyone gets a “romantic match.” Matches are made based on values that you share upon arrival. It’s going to be an extra special event with an awesome live band - AND this one even includes your first drink so GET YOUR TICKETS!

I just love this analogy so I thought I’d share: Spring isn’t just for new love—it's a great time to reconnect with yourself so you attract the right people from a place of clarity. Try dating like you’d plant a garden: with patience, intention, and a little faith in the timing. It’s all happening. 

Want to chat more? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more. 

NEW EVENT IS Thursday! + In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about rebounding after relationships. Plus, read our TOP 3 reasons to be friends before lovers. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE! 

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients. 

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always! 

xo,

Jill

Join Us for a Singles Matchbox Mixer on Thursday

Join us for an evening of live music, good vibes, and meeting your most compatible match!

Clues will be sent to your phone throughout the night to get you closer and then finally you’ll get a message revealing your most compatible match! Fun, right!? Advanced tickets are a MUST. Get tickets + info here. 

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are reserved for LoVe CluB members. Get in the Jillin’ It LoVe CluB for your promo codes and so many other perks including preferred database status. 

GET TICKETS HERE

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 47 and 57 in the CT/NY area? Are you honest, laid back, loyal, social and independent? Do you have a sense of humor? Do you enjoy attending social events and traveling?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my adventurous and intelligent client, A. A is social, easy going, generous, funny and loyal. She loves to read and enjoys live music, comedy shows, and Broadway shows. She enjoys tennis, pickleball, skiing, and scuba diving. She has many passion projects and spends time volunteering for various causes.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Psychology Behind Rebound Relationships

A "rebound" relationship is a fling or interim relationship used as a buffer to "get over" a recently ended long-term romantic relationship. While rebounds are a common socially recognized phenomenon, staunch debates exist on whether they are a healthy choice or a maladaptive coping strategy.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Reasons to be Friends Before Lovers

1. Becoming friends allows you to get to know someone for who they really are: Friendships unfold over time; you get to see people as they are in many situations. There’s no pressure to try to impress or please. The ability to accept and even embrace someone’s weaknesses and quirks as well as their assets creates a lot of space to let people shine for who they uniquely are.

2. In friendship, there is room for other relationships: As a friend you can hang out with someone as much as both of you want. Getting to know each other well over time allows you to see what issues and emotions could and will arise in an important relationship. When you are friends first, it’s unlikely that you’ll find yourself in an intimate relationship for the wrong reasons.

3. Friendship helps build trust: Trust is one of the pillars of a significant, long-term relationship. Trust allows for being comfortable enough to air your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. Trust creates the ability to feel free to communicate openly and without fear of criticism or ridicule.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

Curious about Matchmaking ? Schedule a call to see if my matchmaking service is something we should consider for you.

I’m here for you with more opportunities than EVER! Year round singles events,  The Match of the Month Blind Date Activation, Jillin' It Singles Supper Club, Solo to Sparks Dating Intensive, my private and personalized Matchmaking service, complimentary singles network and 203 Singles Facebook group, Meet Up Group, The Four Day Flip and so much more. Here for you!

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