
Hello Lovers,
I know, I know. It seems counterproductive. When you meet someone you like you want to spend MORE time with them. Right? Talk day and night, weekend marathon dates, plan trips, make plans and promises for the future! WHAT COULD GO WRONG? I hate to be the bearer of bad news but just about everything can go wrong. Actually the best thing you can do is SLOW DOWN. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement and start imagining all these ‘what-ifs,’ but jumping in too quickly can cloud your judgment. The most meaningful relationships take time to build—there’s no need to rush it. Let things unfold naturally and give yourself the space to see who they really are, and who you really are together. If it’s the right fit, it’ll grow at its own pace. When things escalate too quickly there’s really no place for them to go but DOWN. Slow n’ steady wins the race. Promise. xo
We have 2 LIVE events ON VALENTINE’s Day, Singles! It’s a Friday night! Why go on e afirst date with one person on Valentine’s Day? TOO MUCH PRESSURE! Come meet a bunch of local singles with me. It’s going to be funnnn!
Events not your scene? Looking for a more private and personalized experience? Click here to schedule a quick call to see how I can help.
Get in touch with me and GET YOURSELF OUT THERE, get event tickets, get in my complimentary database, get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club, and start 2025 off right! LoVe CluB members, our member’s only event is coming up on Tuesday! Check your email for the private link (and for your promo code to our Valentine’s Day events at Elicit in Fairfield.
In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the true signs of true love. Plus, read our TOP 3signs of love bombing. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!
Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.
Big love to you always! Be safe and smart this long weekend!
xo,
Jill
Spend Valentine's Day with Us! 2 Events are Live!
Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?
Are you a man between the ages of 48 and 60 in the CT/NYC area? Are you thoughtful, funny, social and affectionate? Do you enjoy being on the water and traveling? Are you a good conversationalist?
If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my smart and funny client, L. L is generous, thoughtful, social, affectionate, and passionate. She's always up for new things and enjoys playing golf, traveling, skiing, dinner with friends, and entertaining. Family is important to her.
HOT TOPIC: True Signs of True Love

Infatuation vs. genuine feelings of love: Do you think you can tell the difference? If you're in the earliest stages of a relationship, this actually might be hard to do. But being able to recognize the difference between these two opposing emotional states can be helpful for making sure you're entering (and staying in) a relationship with someone for the right reasons.
TOP 3: Signs of Love Bombing

Intense and Overwhelming Affection Early On: Saying "I love you" or expressing deep feelings very quickly. Constant declarations of how "perfect" you are or how "fate" brought you together. Wanting to spend every waking moment together right away.
Excessive Gifts and Grand Gestures: Showering you with expensive or frequent gifts. Organizing elaborate surprises or events early in the relationship. Making over-the-top promises of future luxuries or shared lives.
Rapid Progression of the Relationship: Pushing for commitment quickly, such as exclusivity, moving in together, or marriage. Talking about your "future together" very early on. Pressuring you to match their intensity or reciprocate their feelings.
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