Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - June 15 Edition

Hello LoVers,

It’s Father’s Day. This can be a happy day or a sad day for some but ultimately it can be a reminder of the love, strength, and guidance that shape us and the kind of partner we hope to find or become. Whether you're celebrating a dad, remembering one, or imagining the future family you’ll build, focus on  honoring connection in its most meaningful form. BiG LoVe to come!

Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

TWO Events LIVE! In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about playing hard to get. Plus, read our TOP 3 signs you are becoming a chameleon. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

Summertime Singles Mixer on the Patio: June 26

Come meet local singles at the Summertime Singles Mixer on June 26! We will be mixing and mingling at BanC house in Norwalk with LIVE MUSIC with Dan Tressler. It’ll be fun!

Get your ticket now! See ya soon!

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are reserved only for LoVe CluB Members along with lots of other perks. Get in the LoVe CluB here.

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Should I Hire a Professional Matchmaker?

The fabulous Laurie Gerber just published an awesome article, after an interview with me!In it, we tackle all the FAQs about why someone should hire a matchmaker, and (occasionally) why they shouldn’t!

She’s a dating coach who gets amazing results helping her clients find love, but she says I inspired her to give them even more resources to ensure success. She helps them with mindset, but I can help supply the dates and the on-the-court feedback. You know I want you to learn what works fast and have plenty of free time for a great life.

I won’t go into detail because you can read the article here.

If dating gives you stress, she is also offering you a FREE GIFT right now that will make it SO much easier.

Here is her game-changing free 1-hour webinar called “3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love.”

 Click here to watch now

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HOT TOPIC: The Truth About Playing Hard to Get

Playing hard to get (whereby people pretend that they are less interested in someone than they really are) is a common traditional dating tactic. But is the tactic still valuable when so many romantic options are currently available?

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs You Are Becoming a Chameleon

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1. You Adopt Their Opinions and Interests: One of the clearest signs of chameleoning is absorbing your partner’s likes, dislikes, and opinions as your own. Before you know it, you barely recognize the person you were before the relationship.

2. You Struggle to Set Boundaries: When you’ve spent years adapting to keep others happy, setting boundaries doesn’t just feel uncomfortable—it feels dangerous. You may struggle to identify your true needs, suppress emotions to avoid disapproval, and feel trapped in a relationship.

3. You Constantly Seek Approval: If early experiences of rejection made social approval feel essential for emotional security, you may unconsciously turn into a chameleon in relationships, adapting yourself to avoid exclusion or disapproval.

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The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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