Singles Sparks - CT and NY Matchmaker Insights for Singles - June 22 Edition

Hello LoVers,

What if the way you’ve been dating is actually keeping you from the love you want? Hard to imagine. Right? On Saturday, Jillin’ It LoVe CluB members tuned for a conversation on how to “Date Like You Mean It: The Blueprint for Finding Real Love.” We explored how intentional dating, emotional availability, and aligned actions can transform your love life. It was a powerful reminder that real connection starts with showing up as your most authentic self. The ACTION that you take makes all the difference.  

Want to chat? Get in touch to I can see if I can help and get in the Jillin’ It LoVe Club for monthly live roundtables, preferred database status, discounts on events and so much more.

Event in 4 days! Get tickets! In this week’s HOT TOPIC, we’re talking about the differences between men and women. Plus, read our TOP 3 signs you are ready to date. And don’t miss this week’s funnies at the bottom. Gotta laugh because this dating game is NO JOKE!

If you haven’t already, GET IN THE FREE DATE-A-BASE! This is the first place I look to make matches for my private matchmaking clients.

Check this week’s Singles Spotlight to see if YOUR match is featured this week. Then, click here to schedule a 10 minute call so I can learn a bit more about you and see if my private and personalized Matchmaking service is right for you.

Big love to you always!

xo,

Jill

4 DAYS! Summertime Singles Mixer on THURSDAY!

Come meet local singles at the Summertime Singles Mixer on June 26! We will be mixing and mingling at BanC house in Norwalk with LIVE MUSIC with Dan Tressler. It’ll be fun!

Get your ticket now! See ya soon!

Looking for a PROMO CODE? Those are reserved only for LoVe CluB Members along with lots of other perks. Get in the LoVe CluB here.

GET TICKETS HERE

Singles Spotlight: Is SHE Your Match?

Are you a man between the ages of 35 and 45 in the CT area? Are you adventurous, confident, authentic, intellectual, and successful? Do you enjoy being active, and are you mentally and physically healthy?

If this sounds like you, you may be a good match for my adventurous and outgoing client, A. A is ambitious, compassionate, social, and genuine. She is traditional, and family is very important to her. She enjoys traveling, attending social events, and intellectual conversations. She is passionate about emotional and physical wellness.

If you are a good match and are interested in learning more,  email me!

HOT TOPIC: The Differences Between Men and Women

There is an idea prevalent in our culture that similarities are good for relationships and differences are a problem. Couples often think the problems in their relationships are attributable to their differences, like “I’m a night owl, and she likes to go to bed early.” It never seems to occur to these couples that being of different genders may contribute. Men and women sometimes see the world differently, behave differently, and feel differently. These differences are largely learned rather than innate, but they are substantial.

Read about it here and tell me what you think!

TOP 3: Signs You Are Ready to Date

1. You Feel Whole On Your Own: You’re not looking for someone to “complete” you. Instead, you're open to sharing your life—not filling a void. Being content solo is a strong foundation for a healthy relationship.

   
   

2. You’ve Made Peace with the Past: You’ve processed past heartbreak, let go of resentment, and aren't using dating to distract from emotional wounds. You can talk about your ex (if needed) without bitterness or longing.

   
   

3. You Know What You Want and What You Won’t Accept: Whether it's a casual connection or a long-term relationship, you’ve clarified your intentions, values, and dealbreakers. You’re dating with self-awareness, not desperation.

   
   

Book a call with me to see if I can help you meet your dating goals. Email me

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The Funnies! Because You’ve Got to Laugh…

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